While I agree with your frustrations, I have to say with all the shit that goes on the world, to be surprised by unsolicited cock PM's is just not something you can distill down to any particular reasons.
Like it has been said, you enjoy posting, started on a lark, well someof those same people who sent the pms are prolly on the same wave length. they just get off sending their shit out there.
The best advice I can give is to just make use of the "Ignore User" feature in the mail area and start blocking the schlubs that keep sending you shit.
I think the real problem is some guys havent had sexual 101 , they dont realize most women are not stimulated by the site of a erect cock , most have to be phisically stimulated , thus they feel if they send you a pic of there cock you will get horny and in turn help them get off as well, I personally dont much care either way , I think cyber sex is highly over rated , but I do enjoy looking at your pictures Lyn ...... keep them coming so to speak ..
You're some piece of work. First, I've never once in the year and a half I've been on this site sent an unsolicted PM with a rude comment or picture. I'm not sure what you mean by my "demorilizing" the women here. That word, in that context, makes no sense. (Look it up) Secondly, as I've stated in a few other threads, I don't get off on the pictures you ladies post here. I don't, however, DENIGRATE the guys who do, like you did in your post. Thirdly, my response was not intense, my panties aren't in a knot, and I'm not someone who takes this whole RMM thing very seriously. But when someone like you feels the need to take a cheap shot, I have no problem calling you on it. I agree with everyone else once you say you don't want someone to PM you, that should be that. But to be so quick to condemn "guys" motives for being here, before you question your own, really shows what kind of person you are. Here's an idea: Stick to posting your melons and leave the thinking to others who are better equipped.
Like a really unattractive guy hitting a bunch of singles bars, they are playing the percentages.
Even if the success rate is 2%, that means that out of every 100 woman the guy, hits on, he will score with two. For a desperate guy, that may be worth the effort.
you're totally wrong there
it's more like 1%
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actually, i DO have a new digital camera...7.2 megapix! hehe...i liiiikeee...
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Maybe we should wait until other men start PMing you pictures of their cocks on a regular basis then see how you feel. I just can't believe you are that narrow-minded.
naraz probably just hasn't made his rounds yet
But seriously, I think maybe some dudes just think women think like themselves. Most guys would LOVE if women were sending them unsolicited pussy pics and feel that women would love it as well if they send them cock pics. Idunno what guys are inexperienced enough to think women and men think along the same lines, but obviously there are some.
You're some piece of work. First, I've never once in the year and a half I've been on this site sent an unsolicted PM with a rude comment or picture. I'm not sure what you mean by my "demorilizing" the women here. That word, in that context, makes no sense. (Look it up) Secondly, as I've stated in a few other threads, I don't get off on the pictures you ladies post here. I don't, however, DENIGRATE the guys who do, like you did in your post. Thirdly, my response was not intense, my panties aren't in a knot, and I'm not someone who takes this whole RMM thing very seriously. But when someone like you feels the need to take a cheap shot, I have no problem calling you on it. I agree with everyone else once you say you don't want someone to PM you, that should be that. But to be so quick to condemn "guys" motives for being here, before you question your own, really shows what kind of person you are. Here's an idea: Stick to posting your melons and leave the thinking to others who are better equipped.
Why thank you. I'll take the "some piece of work" comment as a compliment coming from you. I'm still trying to figure out why my comments about men who do this sort of thing got you so riled up in th first place. Are you a discussion board cop? I was merely trying to get other peoples take on why these men do what they do. You seem to think that my questions were directed at all men. They weren't! Listen, I think I've got a pretty firm grasp of what makes men tick sexually, but the questions I post are meant to initiate responses from other people. I enjoy hearing other opinions. You posed a couple of questions regarding the motivations women have for posting. This place is all about entertainment (both for the women posting and the men who frequent this site). That's it in a nutshell. And, I do resent the fact that you seem to feel that you're sitting on such high ground by making statements such as "I don't get off on the pictures you ladies post here". If you don't appreciate the photos...then what the heck are you here for in the first place? For the articles? Pleeeeeeze! The men who make it a practice to send unsolicited pictures of their private areas to women especially after they've been asked not to have problems as far as I'm concerned. I don't feel it's natural or right. In my opinion they harbor much the same mentality as the rapist who hears the word "NO" but ignores it for his own reasons. So, if you want to come to their defense, go ahead. But, it just shows the kind of person you are. I just don't understand how someone like you can so quickly jump to the defense of men like that. As far as I'm concerned, there's no excuse. And, you act as though I was directing my comments at all the men here on this site. That was NEVER the case. And, if you read my post carefully, I really don't believe I am being quick to "condmn" guy's motives for being here at all. I see these places as very healthy entertainment for the most part. So, suppose you come right out and tell me just what kind of person I am? Man! There are pictures of TITS all over this place! From my personal experience, men enjoy looking at a good set of knockers... they always have and always will. The men here are no exception, and in many ways it's very healthy. And, for the most part the regulars here are all great guys. But, that doesn't necessarily mean it's right for other men to do some of the things they do. And, for you to even make the veiled suggestion that all the women here have security issues as a motivation for posting pictures is just plain ignorant. Whether you realize it or not, THAT comment IS "demoralizing" to women. Sorry, but you really are starting to sound like one of those men who will say things about a rape victim like... "she had it coming because she was wearing a low-cut top". If any of this sounds harsh to you, then I suggest you re-read your answer to my intial post on this subject and look closely at the name-calling and personal attack. BTW, this is all IMHO.
As per usual, either you didn't read what I wrote or didn't understand it. See where I said you were right to say enough is enough when it comes to guys PMing you after you've told them not too? That's the opposite of coming to their defense.But I'm not going to rehash the whole thing again for your edification. I see you didn't follow my simple advice about posting.If you understood men the way you claim to, there would be a picture of your tits here instead of a rebuttal Here's a hint; Above the neck-Bad, below the neck-Good. And to equate what I've written with the mind of a rapist is the lowest of blows.Saying I don't get off on the pictures doesn't mean I don't appreciate them. That's two separate and distinct things. Since we're both calling a cease-fire, your next post should be:
A. More argument
B. A picture of your boobs
Take your time and give it some thought, I'm sure you can figure it out.
As per usual, either you didn't read what I wrote or didn't understand it. See where I said you were right to say enough is enough when it comes to guys PMing you after you've told them not too? That's the opposite of coming to their defense.But I'm not going to rehash the whole thing again for your edification. I see you didn't follow my simple advice about posting.If you understood men the way you claim to, there would be a picture of your tits here instead of a rebuttal Here's a hint; Above the neck-Bad, below the neck-Good. And to equate what I've written with the mind of a rapist is the lowest of blows.Saying I don't get off on the pictures doesn't mean I don't appreciate them. That's two separate and distinct things. Since we're both calling a cease-fire, your next post should be:
A. More argument
B. A picture of your boobs
Take your time and give it some thought, I'm sure you can figure it out.
Ya know... I don't think you even realize just how you come across. Your tendency to posture yourself as superior to everyone you direct your comments toward illustrates how badly you really do want to always be right. Are you typical of the type of men that think women should be seen and not heard? "If you understood men the way you claim to, there would be a picture of your tits here intead of a rebuttal. Here's a hint; Above the neck-bad, below the neck-good". You've quite obviously been involved in relationships where you feel you can assert control over a partner by putting her in her place. Sounds an aweful lot like you're saying "shut up and show your tits". "Women are only good for one thing." Right? Not a very enlighted attitude. Also, the same thing applies to your comment "I'm sure you can figure it out". THAT, my friend sounds a lot like I may be incapable of understanding what you mean because you're SO intellectually superior to me. And... "since we're both calling a cease-fire"? Who's calling a cease-fire? You take liberties by assuming you're always right? Then, you think it's a matter of cut & run? HMMMM! Since we're propsing we both know what one another's next post should be... I think yours should be to...
A. Give up on arguing a point that has very little merit.
or,
B. Be quiet, and recognize the fact that you're being totally arogant, and come to the realization that your opinion is no better (or no more correct) than anyone else's here.Take all the time you need. I'm thinking YOU'LL figure it out.
Or... Maybe I should just bow, show you my tits, and say "you're right darling, I'm wrong. Wanna have sex now?
you're totally wrong there
it's more like 1%
naraz probably just hasn't made his rounds yet
But seriously, I think maybe some dudes just think women think like themselves. Most guys would LOVE if women were sending them unsolicited pussy pics and feel that women would love it as well if they send them cock pics. Idunno what guys are inexperienced enough to think women and men think along the same lines, but obviously there are some.
Sorry, I just find it hard to believe that, that many men are that stupid (unless they've watched so much porn that they've lost touch with reality). THAT would make then just plain weirdos. I'm pretty sure that not a lot of men receive unsolicited pussy pics from everyday, ordinary women. If these guysb want to show their stuff there are a lot of sites that allow them to post. Why impose?
Just chiming in here but.....If I'm understanding you correctly Lynette, it seems like you're getting hit with PM's from repeat offenders and if that's the case well then yeah....major problems and the best explanation is the guy is getting off on your issues with the mail.
If these are just single PM's, then whether you want to believe/agree/give merit or not, the explanation that there are guys who just do it to see if they get a response has to have some weight.
Remember there are over 15000 members to this site and unless you've received 15000 individual cock pic PM's then I'd warrant you're liable to see more.
Sorry, I just find it hard to believe that, that many men are that stupid (unless they've watched so much porn that they've lost touch with reality). THAT would make then just plain weirdos. I'm pretty sure that not a lot of men receive unsolicited pussy pics from everyday, ordinary women. If these guysb want to show their stuff there are a lot of sites that allow them to post. Why impose?
Lynette, this will sound insulting at first, but it's really not. You are totally naive to the ways of adult boards if you think that some of these guys don't get some kind of payoff with their email come-ons. Even if they're batting an incredibly low percentage.
You're naive not because you are stupid, but because you haven't been a denizen of sites like vweb, which has people hooking up CONSTANTLY and semi-anonymously online. These people regale everyone with how they met on vweb and then post photos of their exploits later for EVERYONE to see.
So, does this approach work? Yes, but probably not here. And the PM's you receive are from newbies who don't understand that the culture is different here.
You chose "A", as I knew you would. Have you ever seen the sign in a pizza place that says, " We don't cash checks and the bank won't make pizzas"? How about I don't post pictures of my breasts and you don't try to sound intelligent? Works for me. I thought you had said everything you wanted to when you ended your post with "That is all." That is all. (Sorry, Gnappy, I couldn't resist.)
Just chiming in here but.....If I'm understanding you correctly Lynette, it seems like you're getting hit with PM's from repeat offenders and if that's the case well then yeah....major problems and the best explanation is the guy is getting off on your issues with the mail.
If these are just single PM's, then whether you want to believe/agree/give merit or not, the explanation that there are guys who just do it to see if they get a response has to have some weight.
Remember there are over 15000 members to this site and unless you've received 15000 individual cock pic PM's then I'd warrant you're liable to see more.
Lynette, this will sound insulting at first, but it's really not. You are totally naive to the ways of adult boards if you think that some of these guys don't get some kind of payoff with their email come-ons. Even if they're batting an incredibly low percentage.
You're naive not because you are stupid, but because you haven't been a denizen of sites like vweb, which has people hooking up CONSTANTLY and semi-anonymously online. These people regale everyone with how they met on vweb and then post photos of their exploits later for EVERYONE to see.
So, does this approach work? Yes, but probably not here. And the PM's you receive are from newbies who don't understand that the culture is different here.
WOW! I may be naive then. I guess I underestimate just how many people there are out there who can't seem to score and get satisfying sex in real life. Actually, it's sad.
You chose "A", as I knew you would. Have you ever seen the sign in a pizza place that says, " We don't cash checks and the bank won't make pizzas"? How about I don't post pictures of my breasts and you don't try to sound intelligent? Works for me. I thought you had said everything you wanted to when you ended your post with "That is all." That is all. (Sorry, Gnappy, I couldn't resist.)
Geeeee! I'm just so impressed by your wit. How about this... You start posting photos of your breasts and I'll take your place as the undisputed king of BS around here? That way I can sound as intellegent as you have up to now. LOL! In a way, I suppose you're right, so why don't you just default to option B? When the time comes where you can look at this argument from a woman's perspective and still contend your right... let me know.
Now see, then you've got a legit gripe and the idiots need to be called out in my opinion. If these puck heads (sorry hockey fans) cant take no for an answer, then post up their shitt PM's and lets draw and quater them.
I would also let C-Man and the Freak know, they'll deal with them.
Now see, then you've got a legit gripe and the idiots need to be called out in my opinion. If these puck heads (sorry hockey fans) cant take no for an answer, then post up their shitt PM's and lets draw and quater them.
I would also let C-Man and the Freak know, they'll deal with them.
Geeeee! I'm just so impressed by your wit. How about this... You start posting photos of your breasts and I'll take your place as the undisputed king of BS around here? That way I can sound as intellegent as you have up to now. LOL! In a way, I suppose you're right, so why don't you just default to option B? When the time comes where you can look at this argument from a woman's perspective and still contend your right... let me know.
Undisputed King! I kinda like the sound of that, thanks Lynette. And don't worry folks, there will be no pictures of my breasts anywhere near this site. Look at it this way, you've got your boobs to work with here, all I have is what I type. Wanting brains too is just being greedy.
Undisputed King! I kinda like the sound of that, thanks Lynette. And don't worry folks, there will be no pictures of my breasts anywhere near this site. Look at it this way, you've got your boobs to work with here, all I have is what I type. Wanting brains too is just being greedy.
I respect the fact that you seem to be well-read and educated, but here we go again. The inferrence that beauty and brains can't go together is a little like me saying that all men are alike. It's just not right. Plus, it's yet another demonstration of how you continuously attempt to take cheap shots at the intellegence of others. BTW, yes, I've got my boobs, and by your mentioning them in that vein I'll assume you like what you see. Thank you.
I respect the fact that you seem to be well-read and educated, but here we go again. The inferrence that beauty and brains can't go together is a little like me saying that all men are alike. It's just not right. Plus, it's yet another demonstration of how you continuously attempt to take cheap shots at the intellegence of others. BTW, yes, I've got my boobs, and by your mentioning them in that vein I'll assume you like what you see. Thank you.
I'm just having fun with you. All you've done is call me a narrow-minded moron with the mind of a rapist, who wants all women barefoot in the kitchen. That's not a "cheap shot"? BTW, when you claim to "understand men" the inference IS all men are alike. You certainly don't come close to understanding me, simply because you don't know me. And you're absolutely right, I've always liked your boobs. (altough they seem to be rather scarce lately, especially in your own thread)
this is all IMHO.
