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Double D's

Member No.: 8319 Posts: 3,546 Joined: 05/2005

▫ Sep 19 2005, 21:52 Post #1

hey everyone... whether you're single or not, i'd appreciate your input on this one...

what are one or two of your favorite dates that you've been on... things that were either romantic, or fun, or a bit of everything? or if you've never been on it, what would be your ideal date?

i'm not looking for "dinner and a movie" or "we went to a bar, got drunk, and came home to have crazy sex all night long"... while i don't disagree that those could both be fun, i'm looking for creative, original thoughts

Melon Master

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▫ Sep 19 2005, 21:56 Post #2

well most of my dates were pretty much the "we went to a bar, got drunk, and came home to have crazy sex all night long" so i dunno if i can help you.

i WILL say, try not to do anything they do on Blind Date. lol

Double D's

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▫ Sep 19 2005, 22:00 Post #3

it depends whether its a date as in not the first or its the first..

One of my best dates was when I went to a Seal concert the tickets were a surprise to me at the time as this was about 13 years ago and we didnt have much money we had not long been dating and it was a great night!

Generally somewhere you can chat and get to know each other I would say if you want to get acquainted!

Double D's

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▫ Sep 19 2005, 22:04 Post #4

ok... sorry, guess i need to specify...

not a first date... someone you've been dating for a long time so you already know each other well, but still want to do something fun/exciting or romantic to keep things fresh and fun...

Double D's

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▫ Sep 19 2005, 22:10 Post #5

QUOTE(jrock8)

ok... sorry, guess i need to specify...

not a first date... someone you've been dating for a long time so you already know each other well, but still want to do something fun/exciting or romantic to keep things fresh and fun...

ok like I said then go to a concert! or go on a nice hol together somewhere nice or just a romantic weekend break!

B Cup

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▫ Sep 20 2005, 00:53 Post #6

Go to the Zoo

Double D's

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▫ Sep 20 2005, 00:54 Post #7

QUOTE(sussed2)

Go to the Zoo

done that/do that... chicago has a great zoo right on the lakefront

what else?

B Cup

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▫ Sep 20 2005, 01:00 Post #8

UmMMmmMm.....

Its carnival season over here.... any local fairs going on? A nice walk in the park? Picnic (if the weather is right)? Take a cooking or dance class?

I dunno man... ever watch the show "blind date"? They do all inds of fun stuff

Double D's

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▫ Sep 20 2005, 01:04 Post #9

yeah, i've seen it... some of the stuff looks good, some just seems "blah"

i guess i was more getting at... if you could picture your ideal date that's more than just "dinner and a movie" or "dinner and dancing", what would it be? or if you have one or two dates that stick in your memory as being really really good, what were they and what made them so good? am i making any sense?

(if not, thanks at least for the thoughts, lol

)

D Cup

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▫ Sep 20 2005, 01:07 Post #10

Something unexpected and out of the ordinary...a trip in a hot air balloon...tickets to the theatre...ballet...(ok, depends on taste..) Need not be expensive...turning up with a packed picnic hamper, couple bottles of wine and visit the local park....ditto after dark complete with candles...booking into a hotel rather than going home..basically showing that you have made an effort and thought about it!

B Cup

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▫ Sep 20 2005, 01:16 Post #11

QUOTE(jrock8)

yeah, i've seen it... some of the stuff looks good, some just seems "blah"

i guess i was more getting at... if you could picture your ideal date that's more than just "dinner and a movie" or "dinner and dancing", what would it be? or if you have one or two dates that stick in your memory as being really really good, what were they and what made them so good? am i making any sense?

(if not, thanks at least for the thoughts, lol

)

Well to be honest.... really good dates have not so much to do with what you're actually doing, and moreso to do with the company you keep.

One of the best dates I had was just going for a walk in the park, then watching the sunrise sitting on top of a school bus in a field :2thumbsup:

:2thumbsup:

And it was mainly because we both really enjoyed each others company. I can have a blast just sitting around doing nothing - with the right person.

It's all about good vibes and good coversation! (and hopefully this leads to fantastic sex afterwards lol)

Double D's

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▫ Sep 20 2005, 01:20 Post #12

i completely agree with all of that (especially the fantastic sex part afterwards, lol)...

and i'm totally into the company i'm keeping... i just wanted to see if people had been on some really unique or memorable dates b/c even though the company is good, i don't want things to become too routine and have her (or me, especially) start taking things for granted...

B Cup

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▫ Sep 20 2005, 01:21 Post #13

Ok then - go take her into a field and sit her on top of a school bus LOL

Double D's

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▫ Sep 20 2005, 01:23 Post #14

QUOTE(sussed2)

Ok then - go take her into a field and sit her on top of a school bus LOL

yes ma'am...

...and if she doesn't agree to go, i know where i can find a willing participant

B Cup

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▫ Sep 20 2005, 01:27 Post #15

... if she doesn't agree to go she isn't worth your time my friend

Melon Master

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▫ Sep 20 2005, 01:41 Post #16

QUOTE(sweetnsexy)

Something unexpected and out of the ordinary...a trip in a hot air balloon...tickets to the theatre...ballet...(ok, depends on taste..) Need not be expensive...turning up with a packed picnic hamper, couple bottles of wine and visit the local park....ditto after dark complete with candles...booking into a hotel rather than going home..basically showing that you have made an effort and thought about it!

uhh, jrock, if u decide on a hot air balloon ride, is it ok if i tag along...cuz i've never been on a hot air balloon ride

your friend, Gnappster

B Cup

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▫ Sep 20 2005, 01:42 Post #17

^^

LOL

Double D's

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▫ Sep 20 2005, 01:58 Post #18

QUOTE(Gnappster)

uhh, jrock, if u decide on a hot air balloon ride, is it ok if i tag along...cuz i've never been on a hot air balloon ride

your friend, Gnappster

umm... only if you can do two things...

1) bring sussed along

2) convince both her and my g/f that the idea of a threesome with me is a good idea...

B Cup

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▫ Sep 20 2005, 02:15 Post #19

QUOTE(sweetnsexy)

Something unexpected and out of the ordinary...a trip in a hot air balloon...tickets to the theatre...ballet...(ok, depends on taste..) Need not be expensive...turning up with a packed picnic hamper, couple bottles of wine and visit the local park....ditto after dark complete with candles...booking into a hotel rather than going home..basically showing that you have made an effort and thought about it!

i think that sounds good!! totally agree with the something that you dont normally do but something she has always wanted to do no matter how silly it sounds to you GO DO IT!!!

Melon Master

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▫ Sep 20 2005, 06:26 Post #20

jrock I feel so dirty for giving you advice haha!

To be honest my girl loves it when we have nothing planned, we just hope in the car, and I drive to wherever the road takes me. It could be 15 minutes away, or it could be 2 hours away, whatever. Just drive somewhere new. Once you are there find something to do wherever you have landed, enjoy the night/day. Have a drink or two before coming home and have some great sex. My girl loves it when we do that!

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