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D Cup

Member No.: 13700 Posts: 1,472 Joined: 02/2006

▫ May 14 2006, 18:51 Post #1

[/B]I recently received a PM from a woman here who was asking for comments to be made on her pictures. Maybe some of you got the same one. Anyway, it struck me as sad that anyone would actually use the PM to promote themselves here. Obviously, some women here in the past view this site as "competitive". I fail to see why there should be any kind of competition here. The top ten scores are there to help arket the site for sure. This woman objected and called me rude and jealous (of just what, I'm not sure of) when I answered and told her that I thought she sounded a little desperate to solicit comments by begging for opinions on the messanger. I believe that if someone feels compelled to make a comment on any given picture...they will without be asked. Anyone else get this message?

C Cup

Member No.: 12828 Posts: 621 Joined: 01/2006

▫ May 14 2006, 20:00 Post #2

QUOTE(Lynette)

[/B]I recently received a PM from a woman here who was asking for comments to be made on her pictures. Maybe some of you got the same one. Anyway, it struck me as sad that anyone would actually use the PM to promote themselves here. Obviously, some women here in the past view this site as "competitive". I fail to see why there should be any kind of competition here. The top ten scores are there to help arket the site for sure. This woman objected and called me rude and jealous (of just what, I'm not sure of) when I answered and told her that I thought she sounded a little desperate to solicit comments by begging for opinions on the messanger. I believe that if someone feels compelled to make a comment on any given picture...they will without be asked. Anyone else get this message?

Can't say that i have. the only ones I've received are those thanking me for some of the nice comments I've made.

A Cup

Member No.: 15267 Posts: 88 Joined: 05/2006

▫ May 14 2006, 20:06 Post #3

QUOTE(Lynette)

[/B]I recently received a PM from a woman here who was asking for comments to be made on her pictures. Maybe some of you got the same one. Anyway, it struck me as sad that anyone would actually use the PM to promote themselves here. Obviously, some women here in the past view this site as "competitive". I fail to see why there should be any kind of competition here. The top ten scores are there to help arket the site for sure. This woman objected and called me rude and jealous (of just what, I'm not sure of) when I answered and told her that I thought she sounded a little desperate to solicit comments by begging for opinions on the messanger. I believe that if someone feels compelled to make a comment on any given picture...they will without be asked. Anyone else get this message?

Everybody uses this site in their own way. What one person wants, another may find strange or "sad". As long as the person isn't asking for something outrageous, it's just as easy to ignore it rather than be judgemental. I personally think that asking for comments is fine, feedback on what she's posting maybe why she's posting in the first place.

A Cup

Member No.: 12420 Posts: 96 Joined: 12/2005

▫ May 14 2006, 20:39 Post #4

Oh, You got only one pm? I already received two pm's from this same person and she asks me to comment and rate her pics.

Some people here seems to be a little bit competitive. I like to see nice breasts but starting a thread just for yourself, spamming pm's and bumbing your own threads are just something that I don't understand.

But, this is just fun for me and I try not to take this too seriously

Double D's

Member No.: 9243 Posts: 2,656 Joined: 07/2005

▫ May 14 2006, 20:52 Post #5

PM's are a wierd things anyway. I have gotten many many wierd suggestions from guys but nothing fromt he ladies except compliments.

Unfortunetly, i'm competitive by nature so nothing i can do there.

D Cup

Member No.: 13700 Posts: 1,472 Joined: 02/2006

▫ May 14 2006, 23:15 Post #6

Yeah, but this woman had the balls to say "check out my profile and pictures", then promised to send "personal" pictures to anyone who voted her up or leaves a favorable comment on "all" her pictures. It just sounds incredably desperate to me. Like she's got some serious self-image problems.

*KISS*

E Cup+

Member No.: 11695 Posts: 7,001 Joined: 11/2005

▫ May 14 2006, 23:43 Post #7

QUOTE(Lynette)

[/B]I recently received a PM from a woman here who was asking for comments to be made on her pictures. Maybe some of you got the same one. Anyway, it struck me as sad that anyone would actually use the PM to promote themselves here. Obviously, some women here in the past view this site as "competitive". I fail to see why there should be any kind of competition here. The top ten scores are there to help arket the site for sure. This woman objected and called me rude and jealous (of just what, I'm not sure of) when I answered and told her that I thought she sounded a little desperate to solicit comments by begging for opinions on the messanger. I believe that if someone feels compelled to make a comment on any given picture...they will without be asked. Anyone else get this message?

I got a PM like that the other day. I didn't think much of it, but I dind't run over and start check out her profile either. Her PM made it sound like it was going to be a lot of work... check out these pics and rate them, and then check out the profile, and make sure to leave comments on all of them. Chances are I've probably already rated all the pics she has up there so i can't vote again anyway. soliciting isn't that big of a deal. I know some girls really like to see if they can get up there on the ratings. but I think asking for suggestions on what people would like to see would be a great way to get your ratings up. If she were more active on teh boards, she may already have some of those ideas.

Okay. i should end this post. DInner's ready.

Double D's

Member No.: 12556 Posts: 3,164 Joined: 01/2006

▫ May 15 2006, 00:00 Post #8

QUOTE(Bobaloo)

I got a PM like that the other day. I didn't think much of it, but I dind't run over and start check out her profile either. Her PM made it sound like it was going to be a lot of work... check out these pics and rate them, and then check out the profile, and make sure to leave comments on all of them. Chances are I've probably already rated all the pics she has up there so i can't vote again anyway. soliciting isn't that big of a deal. I know some girls really like to see if they can get up there on the ratings. but I think asking for suggestions on what people would like to see would be a great way to get your ratings up. If she were more active on teh boards, she may already have some of those ideas.

Okay. i should end this post. DInner's ready.

Everyone please please please go vote me tens I will send you all something special thanks.

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B Cup

Member No.: 10962 Posts: 370 Joined: 10/2005

▫ May 15 2006, 00:41 Post #9

Yeah, i got it too... :unsure:

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A Cup

Member No.: 14821 Posts: 61 Joined: 04/2006

▫ May 15 2006, 01:25 Post #10

I think the 'Top Melons this month' section makes this site competitive. If you're able to vote for yourself, then you can keep yourself in the top 20. Isn't that why women start threads for themselves in the 411 section, more attention for themselves so people check out their pics. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with that, positive praise is why everyone posts pics to this site.

C Cup

Member No.: 10405 Posts: 780 Joined: 09/2005

▫ May 15 2006, 02:04 Post #11

yep i got it twice so far and i do find it annoying but now i know how the hot ladies of rmm feel haha

Double D's

Member No.: 12556 Posts: 3,164 Joined: 01/2006

▫ May 15 2006, 04:01 Post #12

QUOTE(Pinkcheeks214)

I think the 'Top Melons this month' section makes this site competitive. If you're able to vote for yourself, then you can keep yourself in the top 20. Isn't that why women start threads for themselves in the 411 section, more attention for themselves so people check out their pics. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with that, positive praise is why everyone posts pics to this site.

The 411 section is for men and woman who post on the boards, that way the people here can get to know them and stuff not for solicitation or anything from what I have seen.

In fact a lot of people post pics here and not on the main page that is how I am I will post a few especially now that John is on us but I rather just post here in the forums.

D Cup

Member No.: 11426 Posts: 1,198 Joined: 11/2005

▫ May 15 2006, 04:32 Post #13

I either received a PM like you did, Lynette, or I read a similar thing elsewhere on the board. If it was PM, I discarded it and deleted it. Either way, I find it annoying. If she's more avtive on the boards, she has a better chance of getting a higher rating and comments. I too am competitive by nature, but I don't take the ratings seriously here. I do enjoy the comments, though. However, what happens, happens, and I don't think people should solicit comments/ratings. Even if they promise a sexy picture (or whatever) in return.

So...with that being said........VOTE FOR ME!!!!! :nahnah:

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I'm SOOOO joking!

Double D's

Member No.: 12556 Posts: 3,164 Joined: 01/2006

▫ May 15 2006, 04:51 Post #14

QUOTE(ontippytoes)

I either received a PM like you did, Lynette, or I read a similar thing elsewhere on the board. If it was PM, I discarded it and deleted it. Either way, I find it annoying. If she's more avtive on the boards, she has a better chance of getting a higher rating and comments. I too am competitive by nature, but I don't take the ratings seriously here. I do enjoy the comments, though. However, what happens, happens, and I don't think people should solicit comments/ratings. Even if they promise a sexy picture (or whatever) in return.

So...with that being said........VOTE FOR ME!!!!! :nahnah:

:nahnah:

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I'm SOOOO joking!

No vote for me

Melon Master

Member No.: 7542 Posts: 16,209 Joined: 05/2005

▫ May 15 2006, 05:28 Post #15

QUOTE(Lynette)

[/B]I recently received a PM from a woman here who was asking for comments to be made on her pictures. Maybe some of you got the same one. Anyway, it struck me as sad that anyone would actually use the PM to promote themselves here. Obviously, some women here in the past view this site as "competitive". I fail to see why there should be any kind of competition here. The top ten scores are there to help arket the site for sure. This woman objected and called me rude and jealous (of just what, I'm not sure of) when I answered and told her that I thought she sounded a little desperate to solicit comments by begging for opinions on the messanger. I believe that if someone feels compelled to make a comment on any given picture...they will without be asked. Anyone else get this message?

Received the same PM I imagine from the same women about 5 days running now and I whole heartedly agree with your comments.

Shameless self promotion is ugly! Please discuss in bondiguy's 411!

Melon Master

Member No.: 11658 Posts: 21,459 Joined: 11/2005

▫ May 15 2006, 06:09 Post #16

QUOTE(ontippytoes)

I either received a PM like you did, Lynette, or I read a similar thing elsewhere on the board. If it was PM, I discarded it and deleted it. Either way, I find it annoying. If she's more avtive on the boards, she has a better chance of getting a higher rating and comments. I too am competitive by nature, but I don't take the ratings seriously here. I do enjoy the comments, though. However, what happens, happens, and I don't think people should solicit comments/ratings. Even if they promise a sexy picture (or whatever) in return.

So...with that being said........VOTE FOR ME!!!!! :nahnah:

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:nahnah:

I'm SOOOO joking!

Tippy, I have voted for you anytime that I can...And it is allways a 10. Now lets discuss when we can get together so that I can put my ballot in your box.

D Cup

Member No.: 14069 Posts: 1,530 Joined: 03/2006

▫ May 15 2006, 13:50 Post #17

My hubby is receiving the same PM's

D Cup

Member No.: 15153 Posts: 1,171 Joined: 05/2006

▫ May 15 2006, 13:57 Post #18

I told triple to post more and I'd think about it :drama:

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E Cup+

Member No.: 11695 Posts: 7,001 Joined: 11/2005

▫ May 15 2006, 15:35 Post #19

QUOTE(bondiguy)

Received the same PM I imagine from the same women about 5 days running now and I whole heartedly agree with your comments.

Shameless self promotion is ugly! Please discuss in bondiguy's 411!

And the discussion play-by-play recap is to be held in Bobaloo's 411

D Cup

Member No.: 13587 Posts: 1,642 Joined: 02/2006

▫ May 15 2006, 17:14 Post #20

QUOTE(Lynette)

Yeah, but this woman had the balls to say "check out my profile and pictures", then promised to send "personal" pictures to anyone who voted her up or leaves a favorable comment on "all" her pictures. It just sounds incredably desperate to me. Like she's got some serious self-image problems.

*KISS*

Definitely sad but apparently is working for her. It's like bribery for votes. What's up with that? :unsure:

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