I've been married once before, we got divorced. Just wasn't right for me. For various reasons, the main one being that we weren't sexualy compatable......It was hard for a while, I hung in for 7 years, well only married for 2.

We'd have made better friends than lovers, lucky for us we didn't have kids, so the divorce went well, she got everything and I took my stereo and one of the dogs....

Shortly after, I met the most amazing woman I've ever met......I consider myself lucky for that too. She was sexy, sweet, and VERY understanding, we clicked right away....she was in the middle of a nasty divorce, but we hung in there and I never knew what love was till we met......A new high, so to speak.....you just know, and if you don't know what I mean, then you haven't found it yet

It's nice to be one with your relationship, no to be judged for what you say.....and to just be head over heels in love....

Just a thought I had this morning.

Been there done that, cept I have 1 son from previous marriage.....I totally understand your point about true love

Cheers for us

Yes what we have is far & byond wonderful. We have been together from date one. I tried to scare him off for awhile,but I'm so gald that he hung in there!!!!!!!!!!!

I remember sitting at a table when we were out & we both said "who knew that love was like this" He is the most perfect person for me.

Love can be a wonderful thing once it is found

I did too . When we met My girl was only 18 months.

Congratulations on being one of the few lucky ones that truly understand what it feels like to be LOVED for who you are

Sounds as though we have a few things in common Blondie, looking forward to getting to know you as a webfriend

Looking forward to getting to know you as web sex objects.

Okay. Sorry for breaking up the serious moment. Sometimes I just can't help myself.

i have married a ton of rmm people, online. its great! last for as long as u want it to! in the real world - "a lady can hope, cant she?"

never been married. No kids (except the 600 i teach) and never been engaged. Just waiting for the right one! You go to those of you in love.

now Bo, come hither you sweet thing. I'm all yours and then some.

I was married for a long time to my "college sweetheart." Should have known better I guess. She said and did all the right things until we had a house built, then it was all about her dreams and my dreams were left to be just that! While she was a beautiful lady and did quite a bit of modeling I'd have to say as time went on she got "dumb." Dumb because she thought the world was all about her looks and how she looked, and who looked at her. No matter what she couldn't get enough attention and she disliked other women immensely!!

I had moved up in a company to a great level of being an executive and traveling in style and comfort. We went to a lot of hot spots all over. Vacations were generated from frequest flyer miles, bonuses, etc. Then one day she told me she wanted a divorce. Here she was fucking her old boyfriend from high school when I was out of town on business. He was feeding her head with a bunch of shit (she told me later about that). We ended up getting divorced. She's traveled down a couple roads since and has come back many times telling me how sorry she was. Only thing is I'm not sorry about our being divorced anymore!!

Now with 2 kids I loved I couldn't just move away, although a great promotion was offered with the move! But my kids were too important and I knew their mom was too caught up in herself to raise them alone. I rode the thing out and while I thought I was miserable about getting divorced, I realized I really wasn't. I began to date and it was like getting back on a bicycle again. What I did find was that I wasn't miserable, but happily divorced.

I remain happily divorced to this day. I've met some wonderful women along the way who have been friends and more, but have learned that I know what I want and that is the direction I will go. I don't try to change anyone, and don't wish to be asked to change for anyone. I'm open to making improvements on myself, but know I am a good person, have a ton of friends, am well respected in my community and have dated a lot of great looking women!! Dating a good lady is not the problem, as I've also met many a lady that has had the same experience I have.

Yep, happily divorced!

But, if some good looking lady came along and wanted to be in my life and had many of the same ideals I do, I'd certainly welcome it! Until then, I am the "BOOBLUVER2!"

Good story man, and a good way to think too. This is why people shouldn't get married till 30

Been there done that got the t shirt

and 4 wonderful boys

was married 13 years to my first love but not a great idea to get married young i was 18 he was 21 anyway .... the last couple of years i was with him lets just say he didnt treat me right it was all about looks compare me to young 18 years old girls he didnt like me anymore never mind lovin me i think i talk about it in a few threads here .... anyway

now i got a BF that love and understand me and treats me so well

and i would get married again

i still believe ....but like AF said not before 30 for sureeeeeeeeee

Good to know you have a bf who treats you well, I don't blame you for not wanting to rush to get married again.......as long as you love one another what does it matter anyhow

Numba and I have been lucky to have found each other. It was hard in the beginning but we were married very young and had a baby right off the bat. We almost didn't make it but I love him more everyday. He knows me really well, alomost annoyingly well. All he has to do to make me smile when I'm angry is count to five which pisses me off sometimes as well as makes me smile. We're still learning this whole marriage business but I'm enjoying the journey.

The only way to keep it that way is to keep working at it......Congrats on finding one another

Nice to see how she feels.

Should i tell her i'm only in it for the sex????????