I know now I can get through this. All men are not this type,like "S". I feel sorry for him. He is going nowhere. He is so simple. How could any intelligent being find satisfaction in a companionship with someone like that? He really did me a favor. I am so blessed to have such a loving family and look at what HE came from. I should pray for him. He is just pathetic...poor guy.

AMEN!!!

Wow this thread is like one big online Dr Phil

...only we arent overpaid hacks

And it's great that we can all pitch in and help. It's also an indicator to you; you're worth it. We are spending time here, and to see that you will feel better makes it all worthwhile and then some.

And I'll have to keep your offer in mind

Just keep being you, and know that you're perfect the way you are.

Well Im not overpaid

What a bunch of swell guy's Rehab in prison must really be working for some of them ........

...who knows
some kind and good words though

DY hope it works out for ya ( which of course it will )
maybe you should post some new pics of yourself just to help us cope withDY withdrawal I don't know how much longer I can go on! ( you did say just ask )

How come preachers always have the hot daughters??

dy,

i'm gonna try to keep this short b/c i think everyone here has pretty much covered everything... for as much of a group of idiots as we sometimes are, there are some great thoughts in here, lol.

i initially was going to stop reading after the "he beat me up" comments and post my reply... because NOBODY has the right to knock someone else around... and i have a feeling you know that now and won't ever let yourself be in a relationship where that happens... but it can't hurt to hear it from an objective party, so hopefully that sinks in.

i know it hurt to lose him, even more to see what he's doing now... but deep down, you know you're better off without him in the long run. you said it sucks for you now b/c you feel alone but you know that won't last. you're doing some great things that you love, which will lead to meeting people that share your passions... and ultimately those will form the foundations of the friendships, and the love of your life that i have no doubt you will meet, that will last a lifetime.

if it helps to talk to us, talk... if it helps to sit quietly alone, pray and reflect, then do that... just make sure to do what YOU want to do, to live YOUR life, and to always be aware of the world around you... i know you're a creative soul at heart, and i have a feeling that your true awakening in life will come when you let your senses be open to everything around you... and when that happens, you'll be able to look back on this time and hopefully see it as one of the keys to that transformation

Spot on brother.... you do not wish that upon your worst enemy!

My $.02

Its unfortunate that you had to endure such crap from such a complete shit for nothing zero.

It may mean nothing for some people that a bunch of anonymous maniacs from a boob site say your a sweetheart, cause hey, We REALLY DONT know you but....

From one of the many boobie maniacal fans you have here I give you a and a because you have made it to a place that is most important for you right now.

You found you own self worth and self confidence and you now realize you dont need anyone to validate who you are. YOU validate yourself. Well done DY and best of luck in your future.

I just wanted to thank my wonderful caring friends on here again. And to turn this to a positive note I would like to share a few personal pictures (not R-rated LOL).
The first one is from my 25th birthday dinner with lil sis and mom and her partner. And the second pic is of me and my dad's side of the family...my grandfather who is a preacher is on the right..best grandfather ever!

You're a lucky woman to have such a nice family around.

Keep being awesome

Just as beautiful clothed DY... It is no wonder you have done some modelling

great pics DY, thanks for sharing with us schlubs.

Nice looking Family and you look marvelous..

But does anyone find it alittle strange, besides me, to post pics of your family on a Rate My Melons Site
just thinking out loud
probably get blasted for not being "sensitive"

Hey DY, great pics, you have a big family. so must be the oldest?

Maybe strange to someone like you. But what is the name of this thread..go look...it says MY name. I can post whatever the flap I want. IF you don't like it leave. HAve a super day!

In the big family shot I am sitting on the far left...and my little sister (20) is next to me..I am the second oldest...I have a cousin in FL who is 27. But yes it is a big family not everyone was even pictured here.

Thank you ! I actually am doing a shoot this afternoon. I can post a couple here later on ...

can't wait!

and continue "posting whatever you like". I kinda enjoy it.

I'm all for that. Please continue to post whatever you like. I'll be sitting here on standby drooling.

I swear I know two people in the family pic... they look so familiar, it's very uncanny. The guy at the top right and the blonde below him... are they married by any chance???