shit this has been all some really awesome conversation. like ok, i tell eric that i would do it if he were serious. the fact of the matter is, i would never make the first move. i would never corner him, never seriously come on to him. i joke about puttin my boobs in his face etc. but i never do and he sometiems comes to my desk to look at my computer for whatever reason, i would really blow him if we had the opportunity, and i pretty much make that clear but he acts really like shy about it or like its a really crazy notion.
i wish i could respond to a lot of your comments and questions but to be real right now, im pretty fucking buzzed and i dont know how im even tryping straight or right or watever. lol
lets talk about it more so i can answer when im sober. lol
shit this has been all some really awesome conversation. like ok, i tell eric that i would do it if he were serious. the fact of the matter is, i would never make the first move. i would never corner him, never seriously come on to him. i joke about puttin my boobs in his face etc. but i never do and he sometiems comes to my desk to look at my computer for whatever reason, i would really blow him if we had the opportunity, and i pretty much make that clear but he acts really like shy about it or like its a really crazy notion.
i wish i could respond to a lot of your comments and questions but to be real right now, im pretty fucking buzzed and i dont know how im even tryping straight or right or watever. lol
lets talk about it more so i can answer when im sober. lol
blow the guy , and take pics , and share with us , show him your boobs and take pics , and show them to us .... LOL
shit this has been all some really awesome conversation. like ok, i tell eric that i would do it if he were serious. the fact of the matter is, i would never make the first move. i would never corner him, never seriously come on to him. i joke about puttin my boobs in his face etc. but i never do and he sometiems comes to my desk to look at my computer for whatever reason, i would really blow him if we had the opportunity, and i pretty much make that clear but he acts really like shy about it or like its a really crazy notion.
i wish i could respond to a lot of your comments and questions but to be real right now, im pretty fucking buzzed and i dont know how im even tryping straight or right or watever. lol
lets talk about it more so i can answer when im sober. lol
I think you need to think seriously about what you just said. You'd like to mess around with him...you "Joke" about putting your boobs in his face. You say he "Jokes" about getting his dick sucked? What makes you think he is any less serious than you? I am a man...and if I say anything to someone about wanting them to blow me...I AM SERIOUS! You may pass it off as a joke so if she responds negatively, you can play it off and say "lighten up...I was kidding", but I'd still venture a guess to say deep down he is having fantasies about you sucking on his tool.
And how are you making the first move if he plays along with the conversation? More than likely his sudden shyness is really him getting worried that the little misses will find out or something like that. I vote for putting your money where you'd like to put your mouth and the next time he is "joking" just say "well Eric...if you really want a good blowjob...just whip it out...I'll never tell your wife"...if he laughs come back with a quick "oh...do you think I am joking"..if it goes bad, you still have the option of saying "get serious.....it was a joke man!" and laugh it off. But I'd still bet on the fact if he thinks you will and he won't get caught he will follow through.
I am still betting on the fact that he has seen your posts through some friends or whatever and he already knows whats on your mind and just does not know how to act on it?
You'd feel better cause the sexual tension would be broken and I am sure he'd feel better when you were gulping down a wad of his cum...so I still say do it!
I have a rule on cheating and I think I may have said it before. If you dont want your S/O doing it, than it is cheating.
If a guy doesn't feel that copping a blowjob is cheating than basic logic suggests he'd be fine with his girl choking back a big fat cock
Bondi,
There is one fundamental flaw in yout theory...if my girl would choke back a big fat cock, I would not want anyone else to do it cause I'd be getting it at home Thats my biggest beef in the first place....she used to do it quite often and now its one of those things "Oh...I don't do that anymore".
However on a more serious aspect, I can tell you I would be far less disappointed hearing she did do that with someone else than if she went all out and screwed some guy? Don't know why...it just seems different. I guess that goes back to the early dating years when a girl would give you a hummer or blow you because she "did not want to have sex with you". They already set up the ground rules where head is different from sex?
And there has to be grey areas in the "rules of cheating"...I mean if your girl brought home a girlfriend with her and said "honey...we want you to do us both"...would you turn that down and say "no...that would be cheating"? Just a thought
There is one fundamental flaw in yout theory...if my girl would choke back a big fat cock, I would not want anyone else to do it cause I'd be getting it at home Thats my biggest beef in the first place....she used to do it quite often and now its one of those things "Oh...I don't do that anymore".
However on a more serious aspect, I can tell you I would be far less disappointed hearing she did do that with someone else than if she went all out and screwed some guy? Don't know why...it just seems different. I guess that goes back to the early dating years when a girl would give you a hummer or blow you because she "did not want to have sex with you". They already set up the ground rules where head is different from sex?
And there has to be grey areas in the "rules of cheating"...I mean if your girl brought home a girlfriend with her and said "honey...we want you to do us both"...would you turn that down and say "no...that would be cheating"? Just a thought
stevieboy I value your insightful post, and here is my reply...
It is unfortunate that your girl does not want to do "that"anymore. As much as people try and have a relationship survive on love, communication, honesty etc, sex is a major factor. No sex, no relationship. If she isn't fulfilling your needs tell her so, she may have her pride dented but it might kick her into gear too!
Now, whilst I'd like to think my fiancee would not cheat, I am not so sure about your theory. If you think about it sex is pretty natural and despite how gut wrenching it would be. If the cheating girl was smart enough to get the guy to wear a rubber, despite some kissing and fondling, no real contact was made! With a blowjob however, some strange guys filthy cock has been licked and sucked and put half way down your girls throat, and to top if off he probably gives her a nice mouthful. Spit or swallow your kissing that mouth goodnight each night!
Lastly I believe your "greay areas" are covered in my rule. She initiated such an event such as a threesome. If it had a "you get one, I get one clasue" I'd decline. However if she wanted it as a one off, she obviously doesn't consider it cheating and therefore neither would I
stevieboy I value your insightful post, and here is my reply...
It is unfortunate that your girl does not want to do "that"anymore. As much as people try and have a relationship survive on love, communication, honesty etc, sex is a major factor. No sex, no relationship. If she isn't fulfilling your needs tell her so, she may have her pride dented but it might kick her into gear too!
Now, whilst I'd like to think my fiancee would not cheat, I am not so sure about your theory. If you think about it sex is pretty natural and despite how gut wrenching it would be. If the cheating girl was smart enough to get the guy to wear a rubber, despite some kissing and fondling, no real contact was made! With a blowjob however, some strange guys filthy cock has been licked and sucked and put half way down your girls throat, and to top if off he probably gives her a nice mouthful. Spit or swallow your kissing that mouth goodnight each night!
Lastly I believe your "greay areas" are covered in my rule. She initiated such an event such as a threesome. If it had a "you get one, I get one clasue" I'd decline. However if she wanted it as a one off, she obviously doesn't consider it cheating and therefore neither would I
I think we can agree to disagree on this one...but let me leave you with this one last question...Looking at how well Cort seems to handle a man's tool (just look at the pix)...would you not have a hard time refusing???
Like I said...I may feel somewhat guilty later on, but I think for myself personally the temptation would be too much and I'd give in!
I think we can agree to disagree on this one...but let me leave you with this one last question...Looking at how well Cort seems to handle a man's tool (just look at the pix)...would you not have a hard time refusing???
Like I said...I may feel somewhat guilty later on, but I think for myself personally the temptation would be too much and I'd give in!
Call me human
Human,
We most certainly can amiccably disagree on this one. I guess your temptations come back to lack of BJs at home.
Whilst not trying to disrespect FF here if I saw her at a bar one night and she offered to blow me I'd politely decline. I guess cheating just isn't in my nature
We most certainly can amiccably disagree on this one. I guess your temptations come back to lack of BJs at home.
Whilst not trying to disrespect FF here if I saw her at a bar one night and she offered to blow me I'd politely decline. I guess cheating just isn't in my nature
okay bondi , is it cheating if ya dont orgasm while shes blowing ya ?
I agree that if your taliwacker touches another female in anyway it could be seen as cheating , I think weather its a bj or sex or even a hand job its cheating , if my wife brought another women home and wanted to have a 3some I d probably faint then join in and let her have the lead , if she initiates it can her lawyer consider it cheating ?
I just helped a employee go thru a very long tearful divoce , he walked into his house and caught his wife activly blowing the guy while he was sitting on the kitchen counter , he successfully beat the hell out of the guy only to be arrested in his own home for battery cause the wife had invited the man into the home , were I got involved was I owned the home , I had a lease with the husband not the wife , I went to the district attorney got the battery charged lessoned to minor charge , but with the lawyers it didnt matter that she was blowing the guy and her daughter was in the next room watching TV , the only thing that would have helped would have been she was blowing him while he was snorting coke while the little girl was in the other room .. My point is that to human kind its cheating regardless to the courts it depends on the situation . a person has to use there own judgement ..
lots of women would consider us coming to this site and looking at boobs cheating , I cant say much I have pics here of other women then my wife showing there boobs .. Just my 2cents worth , not ment to be augumental just telling a true life story .
I think we can agree to disagree on this one...but let me leave you with this one last question...Looking at how well Cort seems to handle a man's tool (just look at the pix)...would you not have a hard time refusing???
Like I said...I may feel somewhat guilty later on, but I think for myself personally the temptation would be too much and I'd give in!
Call me human
I disagree whole heartedly on this one. Animals go about fucking each other indiscriminately, as humans we certainly have that in our nature and the fact we choose to be monogamous when its in our nature not to be is what seperates us, or some of us at least. Maybe im just naive but thats my 2.5 cents worth.
i actually really like the discussion going on in here.
first, id like to say, bondi, i respect the fact that you arent a "cheater". frankly, i never imagined i would ever cheat on a boyfriend and i cant really say theres an excuse for what i did, but at the time, it felt justified and altho i know morally it was very wrong, and that i do feel guilt for it, you never can say never. also, im not offended that you said youd turn me down. lol
secondly, stevie, i see what youre saying here and really, i dont have the balls to actively persue the possibility to wheter or not hes serious. i do think on some level that he is serious. i mean cuz i guess if HE had the balls to make the opportunity present itself in an actualy way that i could actually go through with it, then i would probably do it.
other then that, he HAS seen my profile on here but i hadnt told him about the message boards and i dont really think he has the time to figure the site out so i really dont think hes seen this thread or much of anything else. if he has, i dont think i really care all that much. haha
anyways, this weekend i was in orlando with my cousin and her bf and were having a damn good time. i got pretty drunk on Friday night and at one point they were getting it on in the other room and i walked over and ripped off the covers and took a picture. haha. it was funny but my cousin got upset so we deleted it. but keith was totally into the idea of her sucking him off in front of me. too bad shes too shy. lol
anyways, i dont know when, but i will take some new pics sometime soon. ive been wicked busy and i still have a lot of shit to do.
3d, I hear what you are saying. That is just another case of the law screwing (no pun intended) the innocent as it does over and over and over again!
I still think cheating is doing something you cant tell your partner about
QUOTE(Christof)
I disagree whole heartedly on this one. Animals go about fucking each other indiscriminately, as humans we certainly have that in our nature and the fact we choose to be monogamous when its in our nature not to be is what seperates us, or some of us at least. Maybe im just naive but thats my 2.5 cents worth.
Agreed!
QUOTE(fellatiofiend18)
i actually really like the discussion going on in here.
first, id like to say, bondi, i respect the fact that you arent a "cheater". frankly, i never imagined i would ever cheat on a boyfriend and i cant really say theres an excuse for what i did, but at the time, it felt justified and altho i know morally it was very wrong, and that i do feel guilt for it, you never can say never. also, im not offended that you said youd turn me down. lol
Thank you. I know you can never say never but I just dont dig people who blame their wandering eyes and acts on drugs and alcohol etc. I have been fucked up many occasions on a variety of substances but still had the capacity to not stick my dick inside another woman that I wasn't in a relationship with!
shit this has been all some really awesome conversation. like ok, i tell eric that i would do it if he were serious. the fact of the matter is, i would never make the first move. i would never corner him, never seriously come on to him. i joke about puttin my boobs in his face etc. but i never do and he sometiems comes to my desk to look at my computer for whatever reason, i would really blow him if we had the opportunity, and i pretty much make that clear but he acts really like shy about it or like its a really crazy notion.
i wish i could respond to a lot of your comments and questions but to be real right now, im pretty fucking buzzed and i dont know how im even tryping straight or right or watever. lol
lets talk about it more so i can answer when im sober. lol
here's how you find out if he's joking or not. go out for some drinks. alcohol will answer all these questions and more!
QUOTE(stevieboy)
Bondi,
There is one fundamental flaw in yout theory...if my girl would choke back a big fat cock, I would not want anyone else to do it cause I'd be getting it at home Thats my biggest beef in the first place....she used to do it quite often and now its one of those things "Oh...I don't do that anymore".
However on a more serious aspect, I can tell you I would be far less disappointed hearing she did do that with someone else than if she went all out and screwed some guy? Don't know why...it just seems different. I guess that goes back to the early dating years when a girl would give you a hummer or blow you because she "did not want to have sex with you". They already set up the ground rules where head is different from sex?
And there has to be grey areas in the "rules of cheating"...I mean if your girl brought home a girlfriend with her and said "honey...we want you to do us both"...would you turn that down and say "no...that would be cheating"? Just a thought
I think it all comes down to, if you're fooling around with someone behind your spouse's back, it's cheating. if they bring a girl home for a 3some and you all agree on it, no harm there...well at least not from a cheating standpoint.
Thank you. I know you can never say never but I just dont dig people who blame their wandering eyes and acts on drugs and alcohol etc. I have been fucked up many occasions on a variety of substances but still had the capacity to not stick my dick inside another woman that I wasn't in a relationship with!
i would never blame my own indiscretions on alcohol or whatever. i wouldnt do anything drunken that i wouldnt do sober. and theres no reason to say oh i was drunk... thats a stupid lame ass cop out. you fucked up, accept responsibility
I think it all comes down to, if you're fooling around with someone behind your spouse's back, it's cheating. if they bring a girl home for a 3some and you all agree on it, no harm there...well at least not from a cheating standpoint.
Damn straight!
QUOTE(fellatiofiend18)
i would never blame my own indiscretions on alcohol or whatever. i wouldnt do anything drunken that i wouldnt do sober. and theres no reason to say oh i was drunk... thats a stupid lame ass cop out. you fucked up, accept responsibility
i would never blame my own indiscretions on alcohol or whatever. i wouldnt do anything drunken that i wouldnt do sober. and theres no reason to say oh i was drunk... thats a stupid lame ass cop out. you fucked up, accept responsibility
okay get drunk cort come see me < I will take all the blame for enjoying your fabulous body ..
BAM!
Thats my biggest beef in the first place....she used to do it quite often and now its one of those things "Oh...I don't do that anymore".
