I guess I forgot to ad "regardless of the mood or circumstance" (excluding being at a funeral, just having had open-heart surgery, or during the time the fire dept. is trying to save your house from burning down). I guess during any major natural disaster as well. You guys know what I mean. If the circumstance allows you to... how long does it take you?
It has nothing to do with a natural disaster, It can be like a normal day and my mood might not be right. Might not get in the mood at all might take a little work or might take something simple to spark me into the mood.
It is very much a frame of mind for me.
In a way I like it, I wouldnt like being the same way all the time or stuff I like variety and I like that sometimes my man has to work for the goodies. Much like I wouildnt want a man that cummed everytime he stuck it in. I mean once in a while fin but everytime not for me. I could never answer this question cause every time is different. Guess I am a complicated girl but I love who I am so I will stick with it.
being a guy....it takes about the time your lights come on after you flip the switch
and part B of the guy thing is : It ain't just how fast we get horny it's how fuckin' often . Summer is the babe watchin' season . The small tops and short skirts were all over on saturday . ( It was like 80f were I live)
Not all men are wired the same and are so easy, I was shocked when watching my husband because we could watch a Porno and he wont even get hard and I will be horny and when I persue him than he gets hard. Also at a strip club he hasn't gotten hard. He says that it seems to be for a long time if it isn't a situation where he knows he can be with that person he wont get hard. Like he says he has been at work and thought of me and got hard but if he saw some hot chick he would think she was hot but wouldnt get hard cause he knows he wont be fucking her.
Anyway so I know not all men are the same and I know it isn't some bullshit he is telling me cause I have witnessed it but as far as when it comes to me I could be looking my worst come out and stetch and he will get hard.
I have a friend and her husband is the same way and when we were in vegas and he got a lapdance he didnt get hard either until his wife took over.
I like that with my husband at times too when he is tired or we been fighting and I get horny and I have to work a little to get him in the mood.
I think it really spices things up to have things be different.
Exactly ! I always put more effort into getting the chicks that showed less interest . My wife barely made eye contact the first time she was introduced to me . That started it all ! LOL
My husband and I totally had a love hate thing going on before we hooked up, shoot we had crushes on eachother for 2 years before we finally admitted it.
I think the challenge is alwayus worth the reward. There is about 2% of the time though that I am just horny and don't want no chase just want to be fucked.
My husband and I totally had a love hate thing going on before we hooked up, shoot we had crushes on eachother for 2 years before we finally admitted it.
I think the challenge is alwayus worth the reward. There is about 2% of the time though that I am just horny and don't want no chase just want to be fucked.
and part B of the guy thing is : It ain't just how fast we get horny it's how fuckin' often . Summer is the babe watchin' season . The small tops and short skirts were all over on saturday . ( It was like 80f were I live)
Ok. I'll be the odd guy out here. MOST of the time I can get horny quick and jump right into it. Sometimes I lose interest though if Im horny and ready to get it on but the wife wants to soft kiss and rub and tickle... all that stuff kinda takes me out of the mood. If I got a full hard on... than that sucker wants to get at it!
However, on some occasions Im just not in the mood- im might be tired or a bit depressed or something,,, but sometimes my sex drive just drops because of my mood. The wife can see the signals by now and she knows just to wait until tomorrow.
On average we have sex 2-3 times a week. Sometimes more... but 2-3 is average.