I agree sex isnt solely about orgasm but masturbation surely is... I mean why else do you do it? especially for a guy... to give urself blue balls?
yes, it's my main reason to do it... of course it's the best part of masturbation. But if you dont finish (maybe interrupted, maybe moved on to sex with the lady) it still means you "masturbated" even though you didnt cum at the end-- of course thats just my opinion.
Whenever I've masturbated my husband makes me tell him all the details of what got me off. Of course that's not surprising seeing as it's usually him doing anothe girl. I usually have to mentally be envisioning a fantasy to get off.
I always love to hear the details of when my girl masturbates.... its like a penthouse letter come to life
This is an interesting question. I'm not really sure if im qualified to answer on behalf of any woman out there though. I've always thought that I kinda have the sex drive of a guy. I mean it's really easy for me to get totally preoccupied with sex, and I'm EXTREMELY orgasmic. I'm pretty sure there's only been like two or three times in my entire life where I didn't cum while having intercourse. I've often found it very hard to sympathize with women who say the never do. Masturbating for me is all about cumming, and experiencing all the feelings and fantasies that go with it along the way to the orgasm. But without the orgasm, I'd just as soon go shopping to tell you the truth. And who knows... with the right heels, short shorts, and see-through top, I just might meet the next lucky guy at the food court. LOL!
This is an interesting question. I'm not really sure if im qualified to answer on behalf of any woman out there though. I've always thought that I kinda have the sex drive of a guy. I mean it's really easy for me to get totally preoccupied with sex, and I'm EXTREMELY orgasmic. I'm pretty sure there's only been like two or three times in my entire life where I didn't cum while having intercourse. I've often found it very hard to sympathize with women who say the never do. Masturbating for me is all about cumming, and experiencing all the feelings and fantasies that go with it along the way to the orgasm. But without the orgasm, I'd just as soon go shopping to tell you the truth. And who knows... with the right heels, short shorts, and see-through top, I just might meet the next lucky guy at the food court. LOL!
You wear THAT top to the food court and you'll have guys wanting to have you for lunch.
OK, just an after thought here. Has anyone engaged in "mutual" masterbation? I don't mean touching each other. I'm talking about sitting opposite on another and watching each other masterbate. Kinda like putting on a little show for the other person. Know what I mean???
I have done it lot of times
on cam, even face to face.. with lot of teasing sometimes.
I had a "friend" who liked to see it, she would get her pussy very close to the head of my cock while we both masturbated and let me shoot on her hand/pussy.
I suspect the last part was what drove her nuts, what really aroused me was having her so close and not being able to go.. any further.
Masturbation can be done various ways and for female you dont have to have vaginal penetration but i do believe you have to cum for it to count or what is the point. I prefer to watch someone while I do it but if noone is available I seem to make due. It can def get you and your partner in the mood watching each other.
Masturbation can be done various ways and for female you dont have to have vaginal penetration but i do believe you have to cum for it to count or what is the point. I prefer to watch someone while I do it but if noone is available I seem to make due. It can def get you and your partner in the mood watching each other.