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Melon Master

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▫ Sep 8 2006, 13:26 Post #241

QUOTE(bondiguy)

Lynette you must understand 90% of what I write her I do to get a laugh from people or just act like an idiot.

It is actually rare that I smoke pot and I probably drink no more or no less than the average Aussie male. It is just an on going gag here and I play up to it.

I tell you what I really do to escape from it all? I grab my board and paddle out into the wonderous ocean. I can spend hours in the surf and it seems like minutes. Every problem in the world stays on the sand as I catch another wave, in a relentless pursuit for that perfect ride.

I have dreams like every other person. Next year I am getting married. I am travelling to Europe. I already live in my own house which I do not rent, but which I purchased. I have a job that I love doing. Anything I want to do I do it, or I strive to get myself into the position where I can do it

did I just hear a violin playing when I opened this post ?

B Cup

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▫ Sep 8 2006, 14:35 Post #242

Whats all this got to do with spitting or swallowing???

D Cup

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▫ Sep 8 2006, 14:45 Post #243

QUOTE(closeup)

I've always sort of subscribed to the theory that most of man's problems are based on his inability to sit quietly in a room by himself. Literally everything you experience is through your mind. Everything. I'm usually in about the same mood whether I'm racing my motorcycle down the road or sitting quietly meditating. The only thing you ever experience is your mind, and most of what goes thru your mind is optional. Your mind can't distinguish between reality and illusion, since ultimately they both come from the same place. That's why a monk, sitting in silence for weeks on end, can be happy and content and fulfilled. When someone says they're bored, what they mean is they are bored with their thoughts. If you live each moment as all there is (that is the reality)and not as a means to an end, I think your experience of life deepens. Traveling, meeting new people, etc, etc, are all worthwhile experiences but mostly beside the point since they are still only what you make of it. In other words, getting back to the topic, swallow.

Oooooh! How zen of you. Although I do hear and understand what you're saying, I'd still have to say that idealy it's great, but practically speaking it's pretty much bullshit in America today. If happiness were dictated only by ones ability to alter their perception of reality by sitting on their ass and thinking, there would be no need to do anything worthwhile in life. Why not just sit and become a vegetable contimplating the meaning of life in your bedroom with the door locked? I do believe that life is what you make of it and your mindset plays the pivital role in it, but I don't believe that seeking enightenment through meditation on a fulltime basis is a practical alternative in the inviornment we live. We are only human and tend to learn our greatest lessons through experience. If you are content to never experience the things life has to offer... How can you then gain the perspective neccessary to appreciate your own perception of happiness? Sorry, but I believe that the best way to appreciate life is to live it.

Double D's

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▫ Sep 8 2006, 16:16 Post #244

QUOTE(Lynette)

Oooooh! How zen of you. Although I do hear and understand what you're saying, I'd still have to say that idealy it's great, but practically speaking it's pretty much bullshit in America today. If happiness were dictated only by ones ability to alter their perception of reality by sitting on their ass and thinking, there would be no need to do anything worthwhile in life. Why not just sit and become a vegetable contimplating the meaning of life in your bedroom with the door locked? I do believe that life is what you make of it and your mindset plays the pivital role in it, but I don't believe that seeking enightenment through meditation on a fulltime basis is a practical alternative in the inviornment we live. We are only human and tend to learn our greatest lessons through experience. If you are content to never experience the things life has to offer... How can you then gain the perspective neccessary to appreciate your own perception of happiness? Sorry, but I believe that the best way to appreciate life is to live it.

I don't believe life is about striving, accomplishing or achieving anything. It's not about learning lessons, either. I think this is a doctrine alot of people buy into early in life, simply because the alternatives are never discussed or appreciated. At least not in this country. Meditation is extremely practical in our environment. This is an over-medicated, over-stimulated, stressed-out society. It's like saying sleep or excercise aren't practical. Transendental Meditation is ideal for active people. It's a misconception that meditation is solely for "seeking enlightenment". You were born with everything you need to feel fulfilled and happy. It's not based on something you do, it's based on being human. Gaining perspective isn't a requirment for happiness either. Young children haven't learned those lessons and they are perfectly capable of being happy. Tell me, what lessons have you learned thru experience? Wisdom isn't achieved by growing older or learning by mistakes.

Melon Master

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▫ Sep 8 2006, 16:59 Post #245

I bet you listen to Rush Limbaugh to ,

I suppose your going to tell me there is no santa clause ?

Melon Master

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▫ Sep 8 2006, 17:02 Post #246

QUOTE(closeup)

I don't believe life is about striving, accomplishing or achieving anything. It's not about learning lessons, either. I think this is a doctrine alot of people buy into early in life, simply because the alternatives are never discussed or appreciated. At least not in this country. Meditation is extremely practical in our environment. This is an over-medicated, over-stimulated, stressed-out society. It's like saying sleep or excercise aren't practical. Transendental Meditation is ideal for active people. It's a misconception that meditation is solely for "seeking enlightenment". You were born with everything you need to feel fulfilled and happy. It's not based on something you do, it's based on being human. Gaining perspective isn't a requirment for happiness either. Young children haven't learned those lessons and they are perfectly capable of being happy. Tell me, what lessons have you learned thru experience? Wisdom isn't achieved by growing older or learning by mistakes.

I once burnt my eyes while watching my boss weld , after many days of saline rinse in the eyes I learned that you always wear the proper eye protection while doing this ..

I learned that if you have unprotected sex you can get a women pregnant ..
not part of this aurgument but there are many lessons learned thru experiences in this world

D Cup

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▫ Sep 8 2006, 17:30 Post #247

QUOTE(closeup)

I don't believe life is about striving, accomplishing or achieving anything. It's not about learning lessons, either.

Sorry, I just can't buy your take on this. Striving to be the best person you can be (spiritually), and learning life's lessons is what I think what life is all about. I'm not saying that people should be motivated by material things at all. Most money driven or success oriented individuals are amoung the world's most unhappy people. If you've learned life's lessons and are true to yourself, these worldly things will come to you. But, I guess it's like the difference between a child that vegg's out playing video games all day and one who has an inquisitive mind and genuinely loves learning about new things that has a hunger inside to experience the world first-hand.

Double D's

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▫ Sep 8 2006, 18:28 Post #248

A child vegging out on video games is the same as an adult playing video games, it's a form of distraction. It seems you're getting hung up on the passive aspect of what I'm talking about. You claim to admire someone who is "striving to be the best they can be" My take is more like "allowing yourself to find out who you really are". People who lack focus often substitute action as a means to an end. Looking outside yourself for things to make you feel good about yourself is also nothing more than avoidance. The phrase," learned life's lessons", what exactly does that mean? "Learned" is past tense, like it's already happened. Learning is ongoing and never stops until the day you die. I believe that people who attempt to leave a "lasting impression" with their lives are fooling themselves. "Lasting impression" is an oxymoron, even the pyramids will eventually be no more than sand. It's been said by people a lot smarter than me that all we are is Dust in the Wind.

Melon Master

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▫ Sep 8 2006, 20:59 Post #249

there are only 3 things in life that are fact .
1. life
2. death
3. taxes
the rest is imaterial BS ,

Melon Master

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▫ Sep 8 2006, 21:49 Post #250

QUOTE(closeup)

See what I get for trying to keep things on topic? :blink:

:blink:

You should have known that by now

QUOTE(ddd35)

did I just hear a violin playing when I opened this post ?

I dont know, is your radio on?

QUOTE(closeup)

A child vegging out on video games is the same as an adult playing video games, it's a form of distraction.

I dont mean to be pedantic but what do you call an adult vegging out on a titty site?

btw it seems Lynette did not read my post, maybe she is only interested in bringing down the stoner posts but when she realises that's all a show she sidesteps to another issue?

Melon Master

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▫ Sep 8 2006, 22:30 Post #251

I had a great replyI was working on for this thread, but then my boss came in and I had to help build a mammoth sign. Oh well.

bewbies!

That is all®

Melon Master

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▫ Sep 8 2006, 22:32 Post #252

QUOTE(Gnappster)

I had a great replyI was working on for this thread, but then my boss came in and I had to help build a mammoth sign. Oh well.

bewbies!

That is all®

damn him to hell!

D Cup

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▫ Sep 8 2006, 22:50 Post #253

QUOTE(closeup)

"You claim to admire someone who is "striving to be the best they can be" My take is more like "allowing yourself to find out who you really are". People who lack focus often substitute action as a means to an end. Looking outside yourself for things to make you feel good about yourself is also nothing more than" bla bla bla! avoidance.

There you go again! Geeeeze!!! Closeup!!! Not everything a person says or does is attributable to some deep-seatedsecurtity complex. You've pushed this same button in a lot of rebuttals on this site. It dosen't apply when you're talking to someone who is focused enough to have built a lot of material wealth at a young age while doing everything that makes them happy and content at the same time. If you know a lot of people that fit that description and can still tell me that they are ALL over-comphensating for some hidden insecurity... I'll listen more intently to your argument. The fact is, there are two kind of people in the world... the active, and the lazy. It's all a matter of what degree and in which catagory you fall into. You seem to be hung-up speaking about either some idealistic view of how people SHOULD be living life, or defending all the couch potatos in the world. I do appreciate much of what you've said though. And to that I'll tip my hat!

Melon Master

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▫ Sep 8 2006, 22:53 Post #254

another ignored moment

D Cup

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▫ Sep 8 2006, 23:00 Post #255

QUOTE(bondiguy)

You should have known that by now

I dont know, is your radio on?
I dont mean to be pedantic but what do you call an adult vegging out on a titty site?
btw it seems Lynette did not read my post, maybe she is only interested in bringing down the stoner posts but when she realises that's all a show she sidesteps to another issue?

WHOA! You got your shorts in a knott? And in my opinio,, anyone vegging out on anything is a bad thing. BTW, I'm sorry. I didn't see your post. I wasn't ignoring it.

E Cup+

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▫ Sep 8 2006, 23:00 Post #256

QUOTE(Gnappster)

I had a great replyI was working on for this thread, but then my boss came in and I had to help build a mammoth sign. Oh well.

bewbies!

That is all®

What the hell is your boss going to do with a sign of a mammoth. And is it a wooly one? Must be a pretty big sign to look like a mommoth.

Melon Master

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▫ Sep 8 2006, 23:04 Post #257

QUOTE(Lynette)

WHOA! You got your shorts in a knott? And in my opinio,, anyone vegging out on anything is a bad thing. BTW, I'm sorry. I didn't see your post. I wasn't ignoring it.

I just think u are after fiery debates and thats it... hearing only what u want to hear... just my opinion

E Cup+

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▫ Sep 8 2006, 23:06 Post #258

QUOTE(bondiguy)

I just think u are after fiery debates and thats it... hearing only what u want to hear... just my opinion

Just what the hell is that supposed to mean!

Eh, I was gonna type up a made-up debate, but it sounded like work. Maybe I can get that graveyard guy to make up a story for me.

Melon Master

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▫ Sep 8 2006, 23:11 Post #259

QUOTE(Bobaloo)

Just what the hell is that supposed to mean!

Eh, I was gonna type up a made-up debate, but it sounded like work. Maybe I can get that graveyard guy to make up a story for me.

you are an idiot

E Cup+

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▫ Sep 8 2006, 23:15 Post #260

QUOTE(bondiguy)

you are an idiot

Well, I had to post something. I already clicked in this thread and I wasn't going to get out of it without my name being on it last, dammit.

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