I'm Going To Have Sex

B Cup

Member No.: 12319 Posts: 209 Joined: 12/2005

▫ Jan 16 2006, 06:52 Post #1

I haven't had sex with my boyfriend for months. It's been a whole "who'll give up first thing". Well, I quit, and I'm going over there after I drink a couple of beers. Should I do it?

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Double D's

Member No.: 8319 Posts: 3,546 Joined: 05/2005

▫ Jan 16 2006, 06:53 Post #2

QUOTE(nikkibird)

I haven't had sex with my boyfriend for months. It's been a whole "who'll give up first thing". Well, I quit, and I'm going over there after I drink a couple of beers. Should I do it?

i think the bigger question is why did you start not doing it in the first place? :huh:

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B Cup

Member No.: 12319 Posts: 209 Joined: 12/2005

▫ Jan 16 2006, 06:55 Post #3

QUOTE(jrock8)

i think the bigger question is why did you start not doing it in the first place? :huh:

I decided if he didn't want to work and help me with the bills I didn't want to have sex with him.

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Double D's

Member No.: 8319 Posts: 3,546 Joined: 05/2005

▫ Jan 16 2006, 06:59 Post #4

sounds like you two need to sit down and talk about the underlying issues before you hop in the sack.... but if you do talk it out, by all means, hop away!

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B Cup

Member No.: 12319 Posts: 209 Joined: 12/2005

▫ Jan 16 2006, 07:07 Post #5

We've talked it out a million times. He's never gonna work, and I'm going to pay for everthing forever. It sucks, but I love him.

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Melon Master

Member No.: 2922 Posts: 10,702 Joined: 03/2005

▫ Jan 16 2006, 16:04 Post #6

hmmm sounds like this could be on Springer lol. but honestly, even being a dude, I would say move on to better things. If not having sex is not a motivator to get a job and help your lady out, I don't think anything is. While I'm not a fan of withholding sex for stuff, but since you did and it's lasted this long, I gotta wonder what this guy is up to.

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B Cup

Member No.: 8397 Posts: 355 Joined: 05/2005

▫ Jan 16 2006, 21:43 Post #7

just on the surface, seems like this love is a one-sided thing....
don't like to judge, becuz there's always two sides of the story - but from this angle, sure looks like he's playin ya....

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Melon Master

Member No.: 7542 Posts: 16,209 Joined: 05/2005

▫ Jan 17 2006, 04:42 Post #8

QUOTE(Gnappster)

hmmm sounds like this could be on Springer lol. but honestly, even being a dude, I would say move on to better things. If not having sex is not a motivator to get a job and help your lady out, I don't think anything is. While I'm not a fan of withholding sex for stuff, but since you did and it's lasted this long, I gotta wonder what this guy is up to.

Here here Gnappy... I HATE how women use witholding of sex as a blackmail tool but girl you just have to wake up and smell the coffee...

The guy is using you, and if isn't going to work to help you out I don't think he is a man at all.

With your body and personality I am sure a much more suitable man will come along very soon

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B Cup

Member No.: 8571 Posts: 249 Joined: 06/2005

▫ Jan 18 2006, 05:22 Post #9

Nik, you need to get that bat out and whip his ass, I know you have feelings for him, but damn, If he's not going to get a job, even for a day, to get in your pants, he is the laziest dude alive. Hell, I would get another job to get in your pants :letsfuck:

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