I have a female friend in one of our European offices.
She 'bats for the other side' and continuously makes it clear what she would like to do with me!
My husband has seen and heard flirty emails and calls and is turned on by the idea.(so am I)
Here's the dilemma, she is moving to another company at the end of the month and I am over there next week. He is very keen for me to 'sample the goodies', I like the idea but am worried it might feel like cheating, also I have never gone 'all the way' with a girl before.
Any thoughts (other than take pictures) x
I have a female friend in one of our European offices.
She 'bats for the other side' and continuously makes it clear what she would like to do with me!
My husband has seen and heard flirty emails and calls and is turned on by the idea.(so am I)
Here's the dilemma, she is moving to another company at the end of the month and I am over there next week. He is very keen for me to 'sample the goodies', I like the idea but am worried it might feel like cheating, also I have never gone 'all the way' with a girl before.
Any thoughts (other than take pictures) x
Honest opinion...I would pass. If you're already concerned about it "feeling like cheating"...chances are you'll probably feel like that's exactly what you did after the fact. Even though he says he's keen on it. Seems to me you have a good conscience and it would bug you to death. Devils advocate: if the worst outcome took place....would the experience/opportunity be worth your marital happiness over?
I have a female friend in one of our European offices.
She 'bats for the other side' and continuously makes it clear what she would like to do with me!
My husband has seen and heard flirty emails and calls and is turned on by the idea.(so am I)
Here's the dilemma, she is moving to another company at the end of the month and I am over there next week. He is very keen for me to 'sample the goodies', I like the idea but am worried it might feel like cheating, also I have never gone 'all the way' with a girl before.
Any thoughts (other than take pictures) x
this sounds like fun.... its hardly cheating if your husband knows about it and is encouraging it too happen. You could try just kissing and see if your comfortable with that. If it were me i would take it nice and slow and see what happens. You dont have to go through with it if your not 100% into it.
I have a female friend in one of our European offices.
She 'bats for the other side' and continuously makes it clear what she would like to do with me!
My husband has seen and heard flirty emails and calls and is turned on by the idea.(so am I)
Here's the dilemma, she is moving to another company at the end of the month and I am over there next week. He is very keen for me to 'sample the goodies', I like the idea but am worried it might feel like cheating, also I have never gone 'all the way' with a girl before.
Any thoughts (other than take pictures) x
As you said, you're worried about how it would make you feel, so you need to be sure about this for yourself. Make sure your husband understands, while he may be all for it, it's still a bit sensitive for you. Talk it through more with him. Explain WHY you feel like even with his approval you might feel like it's cheating.
Then if you still decide to maybe give it a go, make sure SHE knows where you are coming from. Don't be afraid to call it all off after some kissing if you are in the slightest bit uncomfortable.
Is there any way your husband could be present? Im thinking part of your trepidation comes from the fact it would be only the two of you and that may be why you feel like it would be cheating.
Ultimately, this is your call. If you're genuinely curious about it, and are comfortable with your husband's feelings on the matter, then just take it a step at a time.
As you said, you're worried about how it would make you feel, so you need to be sure about this for yourself. Make sure your husband understands, while he may be all for it, it's still a bit sensitive for you. Talk it through more with him. Explain WHY you feel like even with his approval you might feel like it's cheating.
Then if you still decide to maybe give it a go, make sure SHE knows where you are coming from. Don't be afraid to call it all off after some kissing if you are in the slightest bit uncomfortable.
Is there any way your husband could be present? Im thinking part of your trepidation comes from the fact it would be only the two of you and that may be why you feel like it would be cheating.
Ultimately, this is your call. If you're genuinely curious about it, and are comfortable with your husband's feelings on the matter, then just take it a step at a time.
We have talked about this since 'euro chic' first came on to me, in a fantasy type of way to begin with. She knows exactly where I am coming from and just wants a fun Welsh themed night Lol.
In reality I will never do anything I'm not comfy about (and my husband would never ask me to). I know it would be enjoyable just a bit of trepidation about the feelings side of it!
No way he could be there,(not from lack of wanting) she is in Spain I am going for business next week the last time most likely I will see her.
Will most likely just see how it goes.....
Thanks for your concern F. X
We have talked about this since 'euro chic' first came on to me, in a fantasy type of way to begin with. She knows exactly where I am coming from and just wants a fun Welsh themed night Lol.
In reality I will never do anything I'm not comfy about (and my husband would never ask me to). I know it would be enjoyable just a bit of trepidation about the feelings side of it!
No way he could be there,(not from lack of wanting) she is in Spain I am going for business next week the last time most likely I will see her.
Will most likely just see how it goes.....
Thanks for your concern F. X
We have talked about this since 'euro chic' first came on to me, in a fantasy type of way to begin with. She knows exactly where I am coming from and just wants a fun Welsh themed night Lol.
In reality I will never do anything I'm not comfy about (and my husband would never ask me to). I know it would be enjoyable just a bit of trepidation about the feelings side of it!
No way he could be there,(not from lack of wanting) she is in Spain I am going for business next week the last time most likely I will see her.
Will most likely just see how it goes.....
Thanks for your concern F. X
Go for it....I'm no where near bi, but have had a few girl encounters in my life. The memories from one night spent with a friend 10+ years ago are with me still today. If you and hubby are both ok with it, no reason you shouldn't. Two girls together can be very magical!
Go for it....I'm no where near bi, but have had a few girl encounters in my life. The memories from one night spent with a friend 10+ years ago are with me still today. If you and hubby are both ok with it, no reason you shouldn't. Two girls together can be very magical!
I think I will unless I have a major flap on the night (assuming euro chic still wants to)
Hope it measures up to your night!
Xxx
Well the sexy, if she's still down then I say give it a go....and since pics arent an option, may I ask for copius details upon your return? It certainly sounds like it could be quite an evening.
Well the sexy, if she's still down then I say give it a go....and since pics arent an option, may I ask for copius? details upon your return?? It certainly sounds like it could be quite an evening.
I fly over on Wednesday and home again Saturday.
If it happens will give some details. I'm getting used to the thought now, I have just emailed her suggestively just to start the ball rolling!
x
not sure that would get him quite as excited Lol x
