why do so many assume that a women is a whore or slut because they post nude pics of themselfs???my wife poses for the pics and we post them..i take care of the PMs...it surprises me at the number of PMs we get that start with "i want to fuck your mouth" or some dumb shit like that...i have messaged numerous people on here and i always start a convo as politly as i would if we were face to face...maybe im just too respectful but i dont think so...i think it is a reason that a lot of lovely ladies leave here...it cant be controlled so im not blaming anyone so dont get me wrong....it just shows a lack of class and character on the part of certain people..your thoughts please...J

don't know what to tell you. some people just can't be nice. there is a way to tell a woman you want to fuck her face. you just don't do on the first message and only if the conversation leads that way. chalk it up to assholism.

Anytime there is an adult website, you're always going to get a certain amount of assholes, jerks, creepy people and weirdos. It's pretty much a given they lack tact and certainly cannot differentiate between appreciating nude artistic art and hardcore sex. For them, seeing a nude girl and hardcore fantasies are one in the same, which is why the very first private message they make is a major creep-out session to the girls and of course they get weirded out. It's just best to ignore them, chuck it in the trash, don't let a few bad eggs ruin it for the rest of the RMM group. Even movie and tv celebs get their share of weirdos too.

I'd figure, hey, at least it would make it easy to distinguish the fans from the freaks

Somethings just make ya say huh

Yes, but I find this site to be muuuuch more respectful than others I have been on or am on.

And yup, its definitely because there is nudity involved so people think its a free for all for what they can say. As long as people ignore those messages or comments, they will go away

i actualy have a lot of fun leading on the wierdos....usually having their dick laughed at ends the convo...its quite ammusing to be honest

I find it rather a turn on issue challenges to people, to show who is keen and who is not...

But I think virtually all the PMs I have had have been polite, until I have dirtied them... but is has usually been my choice.

Kx

i don't see what the problem is with some dude saying "i want to fvck your mouth" isnt that a compliment? I rarely message any body on here but it's a site with a lot of gorgeous women and i want to fvck a lot of them in other places too.

Meh, i'm sure alot of people like those type of messages, but generally when I go through my messages I ignore/don't reply to the ones that are only dirty talk.

I have a fiance, and I don't like to have those type of conversations. Just a preference.

Given the fact that this is a free site on the World Wide Web, it amazes me that folks get along here as well as they do. There is plenty of ambiguity at this site about nudity and human sexuality. It shouldn't be surprising that some people, especially men, get a little over-excited. This site is not just a site about the aesthetic qualities of the female form. Check out the commercial ads for cues concerning what this site is about. Guys who might be too shy about sharing their excitement with words can choose to use the erect penis emoticon. There is even an emoticon for the perves who are into golden showers. There are plenty of threads addressing human sexual activities, anal sex, etc. I'm sure there is plenty of sexting going on within the PM utility. You don't suppose people might even be hooking up for real physical sex?? I note that both fun4us94 and I use
weapons in our avatars - there's gotta be folks who find the linking of sex and violence to be upsetting and volatile. Given the ambiguity of the site, I recommend simply ignoring those who bug us while engaging those with whom
we have affinity.

That thing in your avatar is a weapon? Who knew? I thought you were just trying on the latest jumbo condom!

Oh yeah, that's what it really is.

if its a compliment then its a pretty shitty one....just have the balls to be honest and say" i'm a selfish fuck and i want you to pleasure me".

LOL

my opinion is this. i can only be myself in the online world, so i'm not going to act otherwise. since i don't really know the people on here, i am as polite as can be because that's how i'd want to be treated. if the conversation lasts longer, i'll adapt to the way it turns. i will not push for pictures; if you want to share something I'm more than happy with it. the experience here should be fun and enjoyable and encouraging. just one man's opinion.

you say it well

Rant on a recent prick of a message. He wrote me a message similar to what we were discussing. Asking if I was single etc. He also wrote horribly. The wrong words everywhere, spelling like "nuttin, wit" (which I hate). So I ignored the message. He then messaged again with an angry message yelling at me for not replying.

Oh come on! So, I sent him a nasty message back

You handled it the only way you can handle those kinds of pricks

Just my 2 cents....I've been posting on here for some time now and have come to expect a certain number of PM's will be of the raunchy type, it's the nature of the beast. I mean there is a thread "who have you gotten off to" (which I'm glad to be a part of), and to be honest it mostly didn't bother me. Like hubby says "When you put yourself in the game you have to take the strikes with the home runs." But really a whole bunch of newbies have taken it to a new level. It's not just one perverted PM, it's 6, and when no response used to be respected as "hey I'm not interested", it's now taken as an invite to write back even more disrespectfully. As if my not getting all excited when you wrote me the first time after never having wrote me before, explaining how you would "fuck my ass", deserved a response about how you should "fist me" for being a "stuck up bitch". Now for the most part I love this site and I love having fans, and I'm no angel (ask Bts or lovesbigracks), but I've kinda given up on the PM's, because I just dont feel like dealing with that crap. And worse even if hubby gets wind of to many bad apples spoiling the bunch my posting days will be over. :-( again just my 2 cents.

we do still have alot of fun here...cant let the few bad apples ruin the fun even though the few bad apples are really bad most times...it is usually the younger members that tend to get fiesty right from the get go...i wouldnt say anything to a woman on here that i wouldnt say to her if i was standing in front of her...i understand that certain conversations on here do turn sexual and im not sayin that it doesnt happen with me...its like meeting a woman in a club...you follow the conversation where it goes...some need to learn that though...this is an awesome site and thanks to all the ladies that bare all(or mostly all)for our enjoyment...as for the young guys...even a fool gets to be young once...hopefuly they grow out of it...its funny though how many guys keep on after i tell them that they are chatting with the husband...i doubt they would do that in a bar though...