Hrmmm ive done this a few time.. and Karma is going to get me... but im a glutton for punishment... Do as you wish but know karma works its wonders
puppet you are right there about Karma. eather way Cman I dont wont to see you get hurt. But most of the time it ends up kicking you in the ass. Yes she is the one cheating,but you are taking part in it.Cman are you 100% sure she is not just using you for sex when her hubby is gone. Cman i dont want to hurt you but I think sleeping with her is just wrong. Sorry but that is how I feel About it.
or be like me flick off Karma and bone her to the cows come home... i have news for karma.. turning down good Booty is a Sin in the Good Book of Puppet!
1) No you are not a cheating bastard - she's the one cheating;
2) However, you are an accessory to the crime, and no doubt hubby would regard you as a cheating bastard - this is only a problem if a) you like him (in which case you shouldn't be screwing his wife!), you get caught and c) he is bigger and faster than you and beats you up!!
3) No...parading yourself on the web isn't cheating...its a form of exhibitionism! And talking dirty is only a more aggressive form of flirting, with anonimity!
1) My opinion, she's not staying in the marriage 'for the kids'. If the marriage was bad enough, she'd be out the marriage and take the kids with her. In a bad marriage, the kids are better off out of it so they don't see daily bad behaviour and believe that's the way to grow up. I think she's staying in the marriage for her herself and the lifestyle it gives her, ie the benefits of a family, security, and the ability to have 'fun on the side'.
Now, she's the one cheating not you, she's the one that needs to work out what she wants, but why not remove yourself from the inevitable shit that's gonna land when either a) the husband finds out and/or decides he doesn't like what she's doing or B ) she decides eventually to drop the marriage and expects you to take up the slack?
I think it's probably the opinion of most folks on here that you deserve better than that
2) yep, it's exhibitionism, although if you do it without SO knowing, then I guess it could be considered somewhat iffy on the cheating front....